Friday, August 7, 2009

Whose fault is it?


When a relationship of love is developed, a bond of trust is formed. There is an unspoken agreement that the two of you are committed to each other and that you will not see other people. When one of the members of this sacred bond choose to be intimate with another person, they are not only cheating their lover but they are cheating themselves as well. They are breaking their own bond of trust. In most situations, when a person cheats, it is not because of affection for a new lover. Rather, he may be searching for what is missing in his present relationship or could there be a more valid reason?

15 comments:

Mauloof Ahmed said...

Very true indeed.

There are people who like to experience things so they choose to lie to the present lover.

I have not been engaged in a situation like this so i dont know much about love whereas i see you very experienced in this.

Why don't you share some experiences of you with me?

SELF!SH G!RL said...

hehehe, dont get me wrong Mauloof.. These posts doesnt have anything to do with my personal life ;)

Nynaeve Al' Meara said...

nice blog plum:)

nE3 said...

there maybe a lot of valid reasons ... ekam maybe this this is the one which suites most of the cases ..

nice one shaha .... =D

SELF!SH G!RL said...

u might be mistaken nE3,, im not Shaha but anyways thanx for the comment! =D

nE3 said...

sorry yow .... blooo
selfish girl

neysh said...

i believe theres also provoking into infidelity. i know it sounds rather absurd & you'd end up saying theres no such thing. part of the typical responses are true & part can be controversial. my point is, not every such situation can be called as cheating / unfaithful.

and my views 'doesnt have anything to do with my personal life' :)

Heuristic Ideas ( Baxxam) said...

Relationships only last long when you sometimes don't look what you see and don't listen what u hear.
In other words just don't make it complicated.

Bchy said...

Well, this explains a lot to me. Thanks alot for the post selfishgurl. I love your blog! =)

kaidha said...

Well lets just say...sometimes the temptation is too hard to resist!!!!

AR Hussain said...

Well, Your issue is quite clear here..In deep Most of the times relationship ends becox of the way we take the meaning of love. I believe most of our teen agers don't understand what LOVE is; people do say love could be in first sight or by the way some one looks to your eyes; but I don't believe this.

Love and relationships have more than just falling in Love by appearance or just a look.

Most successful relationship works with Trust, respect, share, caring and helping each other. depending other partner in every way of their life. when it comes to a time which each other don't have trust in between it goes to fail.

btw its really nice piece of work.

sujauu said...

totally agree with kaidha

kaiza shozey said...

i think ur right. they are jes looking for something that's lacking in their current relationship. and its apparently strong enough for the person to let go of that bond of trust. or maybe the person WANTS to let go

Nora said...

hehe sometimes i even wonder if 'trust' is achievable. i cant trust anyone and i wouldnt recommend anyone to trust me.

The Shadowrunner said...

Ah, to travel from a world forged of war and strife, to one built on joy and love!.

To the layman, it may be as simple as clicking your name on the chatbox - but indeed, its a most strange moment.