That is probably the best question that every women want to hear. Yes, at some point, we women want to settle down, have children and live happily ever after with the man we love or I would call the love of my life :)
But we also made some mistake by marrying someone just because we got pressure from family, friends and society, and also we think that in certain age we are old enough to get marry no matter if we are not ready mentally.
For me, marriage is a big thing, and also a gambling thing. You never know what would happen along the way during the marriage itself. Some people who got married in the name of love can not survive their marriage and divorced.
So, is there an exact and strong reason to begin a marriage? So that we can survive our marriage, till death do us part.
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In my opinion, there is a perfect time for everyone to get married.And many people get-it-right-first-time too. of course, if fail to understand that Perfect time, it's either too early or too late.
In my opinion, being early is better than being too late, so you always have time to make it right next time.
Opinions differ, I agree
I Agree with Vishau
Being late, and too late will be regrettable, of course. So i don't mind getting an early divorce than later. After all, much of we learn are from mistakes.
I know i'm disagreeing with your idea of s3lfish. Opinions does differ!
Do the big things again and again until you master it! it doesn't sound good when its marriage, i know. am I going insane!
marriage is not about love...its about compromise...if there is love then it sure is a bonus...and i dont believe in the happily ever afters...cox we fight...we make up...and keep on doing the same thing for the next 50 years...thats wat marriage is all about..
as for the age...well get ur self prepared mentally, physically and financially before you embark on such a trip
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i totally agree with Kaidha.. Its all about compromise and wheres the fun in life if we dont fight around and make up! and yeah frm my own experience being early isnt bad either, all u need to know is how tackle in life :D
How did you decide the Name of the Article? Your instincts or just to get the attention of readers?
hehe.. in any way i got the attention of readers though its my instinct or not and i succeeded in that :D
i think most people fail to comprehend jes how big a step marriage is. i mean they meet a guy, falls in love and then suddenly decides they would get married. they dont realise the responsibility they are about to take on. they dont realise the hardships. love is never enough. there are so many other factors that come into play. but as we grew up we have been fed too many fairy tales etc to make us believe that love alone will get us through life and that its all we will ever need.
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